♥ Loving Someone.. ♥
>> Saturday, May 10, 2008
person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the
people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful
Things and simply because we allow ourselves to be
enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man
of deeds and not for the man of words for you will
find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but
the man whom loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving
from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find her own HAPPINESS without expecting her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and
weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten
you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing
it. You may have found peace in just loving someone
from a distance not expecting anything in return. But
be careful, for this can sustain life but can never
give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive
with just beautiful memories of the fast but real
peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of
what reality is today.
you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing
it. You may have found peace in just loving someone
from a distance not expecting anything in return. But
be careful, for this can sustain life but can never
give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive
with just beautiful memories of the fast but real
peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of
what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon
someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting so
intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon
become a part of our everyday lives and eventually
consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it
is when we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than just friendship, or the
feelings she might have for you is just too far from
how you love her. We start our desperate attempt to
get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts
are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves.
You don't have to be bitter on love. What you need to
learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without
being bitter or sorry for Yourself Believe me, you
would be better off giving that dedication and love to
someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your
life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it
means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you
lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears
wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past
has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will
find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that
it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When you lost someone… and you think you were the one
who loved most, between the two of you… he lost more.
For someday you can love someone the way that you
loved her… But he will never be loved again the way
someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting so
intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon
become a part of our everyday lives and eventually
consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it
is when we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than just friendship, or the
feelings she might have for you is just too far from
how you love her. We start our desperate attempt to
get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts
are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves.
You don't have to be bitter on love. What you need to
learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without
being bitter or sorry for Yourself Believe me, you
would be better off giving that dedication and love to
someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your
life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it
means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you
lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears
wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past
has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will
find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that
it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When you lost someone… and you think you were the one
who loved most, between the two of you… he lost more.
For someday you can love someone the way that you
loved her… But he will never be loved again the way
that you did."
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